The heart has its own reasons, which the mind cannot understand. The heart has its own dimension of being, which is completely dark for the mind, beyond the reach of it. It looks foolish. Love always looks foolish because it is not utilitarian. Mind is utilitarian. It uses everything for something else — that is the meaning of utilitarian. Mind is purposive, end-oriented; it turns everything into a means — & love can't turn everything into a means, that is the problem. Love in itself is the goal.
Love opens the eyes, love cleanses the eyes... your perception becomes clear.